MH: When my daughter was born (our first child) a big portion of my wardrobe became obsolete in an instant. Not because I thought I needed to change my style to accommodate motherhood, but because motherhood required more from my wardrobe. I needed easy access to nurse, washable fabrics (who has time for the drycleaners every other day!?) and versatile styles to take me from play-date to date night.
I couldn’t find a single website speaking to stylish moms who wanted high fashion paired with high function, so I created it! I didn’t think it was necessary to reinvent the wheel, so I started by curating styles from contemporary ready-to-wear collections (like Mara Hoffman and Rachel Comey). Last August, we added our own private label, The BURU White Label Collection to offer our moms a more approachable price point without sacrificing style.
Since BURU launched, it has become much more than a shopping site—it’s grown into a community of incredible mothers cheering each other on. While we aim to #elevateyourmomstyle, the hope it that we also make it fun and create interesting content along the way.
MH: There are so many magical moments of pregnancy. Too bad they are countered with nausea, exhaustion, and adult acne, right?! But in all seriousness, I feel very lucky to have had two pregnancies free of complications and more importantly two healthy kiddos to show for it.
MH: With Olive, I literally remember thinking, “Well, I guess I will never sleep again.” This time around, with Baby Schafer, I am fully aware that it’ a phase—a pretty short one in the scheme of things. I think the added stress of believing that you will never sleep again makes a mama even more tired. As with many things in life, it comes down to expectations. I fully expected to NOT sleep for weeks with Schafer, so when he gets a solid 4-hours at once, I feel like I have won the sleep lottery!
MH: The first time around, absolutely. I was a nervous wreck that Olive was starving, and I honestly think that because of that, my milk wouldn’t let down. With tears streaming down my face, Brett cracked a bottle of formula for us to give to her on her 6th day of life, I swear the relief of knowing it wasn’t all up to me, relaxed me just enough. My milk basically shot across the room. (Okay…that’s an exaggeration, but you get the point!) After I stopped stressing so much, we were golden! With Schafer, it’s been super easy, minus the challenge of juggling two little ones who both want and need you at the same time!
MH: I don’t think there is such a thing as maternity leave when you run your own business. I never really stopped to be honest. (There is actually a picture of me in labor with my laptop balancing on my bump!) Not sure if that is a good or bad thing—it’s just my reality. I created BURU out of necessity, but also so that I could do things on my own terms. My husband and children come first—no matter what, but BURU is like another child, and I give it the care it’s need to the best of my ability.
MH: Thank you for saying that. I would hope that it has helped cultivate a more personal and trustworthy connection with our customers. I honestly don’t know how else to be. I was incredibly private for years and that approach to life was a disaster for me—I literally combusted! In this day and age of “perfect” social media, I feel it is my responsibility as a real mom to help other real moms know that they are not alone and that we all have our share of issues. I absolutely LOVE when women/customers from across the country reach back out to chat about their own personal struggles.
MH: Wow! Thank you so much. You know a lot of incredibly stylish women, so I am super flattered! My style philosophy has always been to have fun with my clothes—I don’t take it too seriously, and I don’t worry about the rules. Motherhood has probably toned me down to a degree because fussy clothes tend to get in the way of mom duties, but if I really love it—I wear it no matter what! I also don’t stress about things getting dirty. I would rather ruin it while using it than let it go out of style on a hanger in my closet! (Perhaps with the exception of Chanel blazers—those are reserved for no-baby outings!) Most everything in the BURU White Label collection (and a great deal in our curated ready-to-wear) is washable. I think it is one of the most important features of a mom’s wardrobe.
When BURU first started the idea was to curate styles that already existed from brands moms know, love and trust. I absolutely love being a buyer, but over the last three years, I have stockpiled ideas of styles I searched for, but couldn’t find in price points more attainable for a broader group of mamas. The BURU White Label provides a multi-tasking wardrobe for multi-tasking moms. It also feels more inclusive. Not everyone can or wants to buy a $300-400 dress. With most items coming in <$100, BWL is more approachable and honestly, more wearable. It’s fashion without the fuss (or perhaps with just the right amount of fuss!)
Travel. I can’t get enough. I want to see everything!
Hmm—what is relaxing? Ha! Life has been a bit busy of late, but I feel I actually flourish in those moments. That said, a nice glass of wine while watching a documentary with my husband by my side helps me unwind.
Oh, the Places You’ll Go! By Dr. Suess